How my journey began.

The first time I had a boyfriend ask me if I masturbated I felt embarrassed and confused as I had not had the conversation with anyone about it before. I called my mother and asked her why we hadn't ever talked about it. And asked her if she did? She said no because she was raised to feel God was watching her. And I'm sure that was the attitude and message she gave me as I don't recall ever having the freedom or pleasure in the idea of touching myself.

The idea felt wrong and dirty. In my mid twenties a guy friend of mine took me to a sex shop and bought me my first vibrator. I wore out the batteries in a matter of a week. I got married, had children and forgot about sex and my needs. One of my girlfriends gave me a Rabbit. I remember looking at it and thinking it was pretty intimidating. It was large and had pearls at the shaft and then the ears that would tickle a woman's clitoris. It seemed like a very daunting toy. I hid it in my closet for a year.

I'm a migraine sufferer and have done nearly every type of treatment and medicine for them. One day my mother in law mentioned to me that I really needed to read what Louise Hays says in “You can heal your life” about migraines. I had the book as I love Louise Hays and opened the book and wouldn't you know. She told me I was a perfectionist and I needed to masturbate. Essentially letting go, climax will get rid of my migraine.

My rabbit became my best friend. Sadly I was in a marriage that was loveless and sexless. It was an interesting phenomenon that once I begun masturbating I was happier and looked better. One of my peers actually thought I had gotten liposuction. I went through a couple Rabbits during that marriage. Since getting a divorce I have had 2 adult relationships. I have learned and explored more in my sexuality in those then in the 25 years prior. What I attribute that to is a comfort with myself and knowing my body now.

I believe in monogamy and believe the best sex is shared by two that want the same thing. Smell is so important, chemistry is essential, communication is necessary. What I most want to accomplish with my website is to providing a safe space to ask questions and talk about sex, masturbation and ways to promote healthy sex lives with your partner.

I want all woman and men to have the best sex ever. When we climax it not only helps us to live longer lives, it helps our hormones balance, it reduces stress. Both men and woman sleep better after having orgasms.

I have been trying different toys while single and I will only sell the ones I have used and love or my girlfriends swear by!!! I don't believe in selling something just because…

Here is to Orgasms!!! May you have one every time and may you have many!